MARRIAGE WHERE UPS AND DOWNS MEET
Written by- Shalini Bishi
"STRANGERS TO SOUL MATE" : A beautiful part of life and at the same time from "I DO" to "I AM DONE " the end of life time promise, it's not just a phase of life but also it's a decision which make the person happy for life time or makes the life as like as hell.
It is not just a word marriage it's a inseparable part of life an it also chapter which we can not skip or we can not say that "this chapter is not important for exam " and also this chapter of life can not be teach by the teacher here the only teacher and key for a successful marriage is word "marriage" It stands for
M- MUTUAL DECISION
A - ADJUSTMENT
R - RESPECT
R - RESPONSIBILITY
I - INSEPARABLE BOND
A - APPRECIATION
G - GOOD CONVERSATION
E - EMOTIONAL SUPPORT
Without these 8 word a married life is incomplete and the reason of divorce also absence of marriage in marriage.
I have the reasonable discussion that these 8 words are not only a word but also 8 piece of cake without out one piece the Cake is incomplete.
Cream
Bread
Sugar
Milk
Coco powder
Tutti frutti
Chocolate
A SLICE OF RESPECT: THE KEY TO THE HEALTHY AND FULFILLING MARRIAGE
Can we make a statement that marriage is like a cake because,
In cake the most important is base that is "BREAD " without which we can't able to make a cake like that "RESPECT" between husband wife is as important as a base because it is the base in a relationship. Both have the right to get equal respect from his partner, no matter the person is male or female, get more salary or not , have the equal status on the basis of - caste, religion, financial, etc. Because Both Are the 2 sides of a coin.
ADJUSTMENT TO PERFECTION: THE CREAMY SMOOTHNESS OF HEALTHY MARRIAGE
We can compare "CREAM" with "ADJUSTMENTS " Because the main role of cream in cake is to make the cake more delicious and adjustment the gap of bread by covering of cream like that adjustment also a that part of marriage which make the married life longer and smooth. In married life Both have to adjust and accept their bad side and good side , but now a days people give more importance to the himself/herself rather than the relationship it also a reason of increasing rate of divorce. Adjustment does not means to suffer torture and harassment, adjustment means accept each other in Every step of lifeand support in worst to worst situation.
INSEPARABLE LIKE SUGAR AND CAKE: THE U BREAKABLE BOND OF MARRIAGE
Can we relate "sugar" with "INSEPARABLE BOND" between couple. Sugar add sweetness in cake like that inseparable bond is the love affection in a relationship without which a person can not want to adjustment, respect each other.
A MARRIAGE LIKE CAKE: WHERE GOOD CONVERSATION IS THE MILK THAT BINDS IT TOGETHER
"GOOD CONVERSATION " is like "MILK" Because milk act like a binding elements , which make binding between ingredients, like that good conversation help persons to come closer mentally and emotionally and to understand each other.
WHEN RESPONSIBILITY MEETS MARRIAGE: LIKE COCOA POWDER IN CAKE, IT MAKES IT COMPLETE
"RESPONSIBILITY" is like "COCO POWDER " which is something that we always forgot to add like that Responsibility which we always forgot to perform that for each other. This is like "small role but huge impact" . Now Many couples try to runaway from their Responsibility. Before this modern era and women empowerment era their was a concept that the husband used to do the Job and earn money and the wife took all the Responsibility of house and make the life easier, but after the womens empowerment era almost 60% of womens used to preffer to continue the job and it is very good signs of developed country, and good for their independent life but the womens should not forgot that they also have the Responsibility towards their family and for their married life. Somehow male are also liable for this- " move on from Responsibility concept " move on is good for past life but not good for present it is like a " THE BLAME GAME : SHIFTING RESPONSIBILITY TO AVOID RESPONSIBILITY " According to research the main reason for the blame game is both are more "Career oriented" and "self centric" It is good for a limited period not all the time. According to my opinion both Career and family are Important but we can't as well as should not avoid family because a happy family environment make the person
developed and happy and importantly peace which is a very big struggle In life for present time because " THE SECRET TO JOYFUL FAMILY- HAPPY HEART , HAPPY HOME "
MUTUAL DECISION, APPRECIATIONS and EMOTIONAL SUPPORTS: CHERRY ON TOP IN MARRIAGE
"MUTUAL DECISIONS, APPRECIATIONS and EMOTIONAL SUPPORT" is like "CHOCOLATES AND TUTTI FRUTII" in the cake , it increases taste of the ca,r like these 3 components of marriage helps to increases the compatibility between the couple.
we can not make Cake without these ingredient like that , marriage is also incomplete without these 8 beautiful presence of word in marriage.
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